To Love and Care- Part One

My Life….

I love to read books, she prefers to watch movies. I love to code, she loves to party. I love veggies, she wants junk food. And so, it goes. Both the partners are so different in everything, I wonder how they came together. What can one talk about such relationships?

Many of us are involved in such relationships. One of the partner is a genius and the other could barely pass through the exams. How do such relationships develop and survive? Such relationships developed because both loved each other because of the differences. The differences attracted them. They found each other so different that it was something exciting to them. They loved each other for these differences and so they came to enjoy life as if it were some exciting trip to unknown destinations.

What is the future of such relationships? It is difficult to say. If the love and care that brought them together remains, they will tolerate everything else. Doesn't a mother do everything for her toddler? That is because of love and care. So, if the love remains, everything can be taken care of. If they uphold their care for each other and never ever think of a break-up, then nothing shall break them. However, if the love dwindles, the complaints will rise and vanish the left-over love and the relationship is doomed.

Ask someone if he/she is satisfied with their mate, the answer will expose the magnitude of love between them. Even if they behave alike and the love is lost, they will find imaginary complaints. Satisfaction with one’s mate depends on one factor - love and care. If both love and care for each other they will be satisfied despite a thousand differences or similarities.